Auditing · One-on-one

Something that happened before is still running how you react today

You already know the reaction. It fires before you decide anything, it is out of proportion to what is in front of you, and knowing that has never once stopped it. That reaction has a moment where it started.

What auditing actually is

Sessions, one to one, where you look at that exact moment. I ask you precise questions and you go back to it and look, as many times as it takes, until the moment stops having a charge on it.

You are the one who finds what is there. I do not interpret it for you, I do not tell you what it means, and I do not give you advice.

Not the financial kind

The word means to listen. That is most of what I do in the session.

Only you and me

Private. Nothing you say in a session is shared with anybody, ever.

No advice

The moment you are told what your experience means, it stops being yours. So you are not told.

It ends when it is gone

Not when the hour is up. We work a thing until it stops having a hold on you.

How a session goes

  1. We find the moment

    Starting from the reaction you already know about. The moment is almost never the one you expected, and it is almost always earlier.

  2. You go through it, more than once

    Not talking about it. Going back to it and looking. Each pass gives up something the one before did not.

  3. We check it is actually gone

    You tell me, and it is visible: the thing you could not think about without flinching, you can now think about flatly.

Where it happens

In person, in Bogotá. That is where I am and that is where sessions run, which is also why they cost what they cost: nothing is added on top for moving anybody around.

In Bogotá

We agree a place and a time and we work. The price you were quoted is the price.

Outside Bogotá

I travel, and travel, transport and lodging are covered by whoever contracts. I quote that separately and in writing, before anything is booked.

Sessions are not rushed

We work a thing until it is done, so we agree the block of time beforehand rather than cutting mid-session.

What this is not

I would rather you read this before you write to me than find it out afterwards.

It is not medicine or psychology

I am not a doctor, I am not a psychologist and I do not present myself as either. This is not a health service.

Nothing is diagnosed or treated

I do not diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any illness, and I do not make any claim about your health.

It does not replace a treatment

If you are under medical or psychiatric treatment, stay on it. Nothing here is a reason to stop something a doctor prescribed you.

No result is promised

Anybody who guarantees you a specific result about your own mind is lying to you. I tell you what we are going to do, not what you are going to feel.

There are people I turn away

Someone in a psychiatric crisis, or under psychiatric treatment, needs their doctor and not me. In that case I say so and I do not take the work.

You decide, always

Taking part is voluntary, you stop when you want, and what you say in a session stays between the two of us.

Questions people ask

Is this therapy?

No. I am not a psychologist and this does not replace medical or psychological care. If something needs a doctor, it needs a doctor, and I will tell you so rather than take you as a client.

Do I have to believe anything?

No. Nothing here is asked on faith. You look at your own memory and you decide what you find there. If you look and there is nothing, that is the answer.

How long does it take?

It depends on what you bring and it is honest to say so. Some things come apart in one session. Others take several. I would rather tell you after the first one than promise you a number now.

Are you certified to do this?

Yes. I hold the certificates and I am licensed as a field auditor, with the corresponding royalties paid on what I deliver.

What if I start and want to stop?

You stop. You are never locked into a number of sessions and nothing is sold to you in a block you have to finish.

Related

Bring me the reaction you cannot talk yourself out of

Tell me what it is in two lines. I will tell you plainly whether this is the thing for it, and if it is not, what is.

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